To All the Middle Children Out There

 Let's face it: there are millions of voices and opinions out there telling us what family life should look like. Is there an ideal family dynamic? Can children still develop and function normally when family life is dysfunctional and/or less than ideal? What are we to believe/not believe? How can we become critical thinkers and deep divers into marriage and family research? These are extremely important questions, and I have good news! This post will be focusing on the some of the above questions and how to become a savvy consumer of research.  Before I get into the previous questions, I would like to briefly provide background information about my own family. I grew up with both of my parents who have been married for 29 years. Their marriage hasn't been perfect just like anyone else's, but they have provided a loving and lasting example of marriage and conviction that I am grateful for. On the other hand, this is the only family dynamic I have been able to examine closel

If you haven't guessed already, I am a proud middle child! My 4 other siblings are my best friends, while simultaneously being the people I practice my patience and communication skills with the most. Thus it is called "the labor of love". Due to my dedication to improve my own relationships, I am attending college in order to earn my Bachelor's in Marriage and Family Studies.  Through my learning, I hope to aid you in your lifelong journey of understanding and influencing your own families for the better. So please, whether you are a middle child or know someone who is, read on! :)