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If you haven't guessed already, I am a proud middle child! My 4 other siblings are my best friends, while simultaneously being the people I practice my patience and communication skills with the most. Thus it is called "the labor of love". Due to my dedication to improve my own relationships, I am attending college in order to earn my Bachelor's in Marriage and Family Studies. 

Through my learning, I hope to aid you in your lifelong journey of understanding and influencing your own families for the better. So please, whether you are a middle child or know someone who is, read on! :) 

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